I was in my 20’s when the AIDS epidemic exploded. There is little information about the disease with so much fear and misinformation. Suddenly, sex had life or death consequences… like playing Russian roulette. You heard stories of people contracting HIV after one sexual encounter. Not just gay men but heterosexual couples as well.
Through dedicated research and cooperation with the NIH and other private and government agencies, a clearer picture came into focus as to how the disease was spread and ultimately how to restrict the spread. This chapter in the book of sexually transmitted diseases shaped the way we think and act even today.
We now have drugs that have basically arrested the effects of AIDS and HIV….and vaccines to prevent future infections to the point it doesn’t concern most of today’s society. However, testing is still necessary to baseline one’s sexual health. If you are actively engaging in “unsafe sex”, it is wise to monitor and be informed as to your sexual health status.
Condoms are still one of the most inexpensive and practical protections when engaging in sexual intimacy. They were widely distributed during the AIDS epidemic and still easily accessible. It takes away much of the stress and fear when engaging in sex with a partner knowing you are protected. Order your free condoms here.
Another popular and convenient prevention of HIV is a medication called PrEP. It is available in pill form or injection and is available online. This drug is very effective.
Still another way to prevent infection is to never share needles if taking drugs. This is one of the most common ways of contracting HIV outside of unprotected sex.
The most certain way of being safe is to abstain from drug use and sex altogether… though not the most popular choice. It does work for some.
My own personal experience has been monogamy. I have been with one partner for 20 years. Intimacy and sex are still important in our relationship, but we have no fear of disease entering our bedroom.
Enjoy expressing yourself sexually. If multiple partners are your style…embrace it responsibly. Get tested every 3 to 6 months. Keep a supply of HIV home test kits and self test, or visit a clinic. Just be aware and responsible for the sake of your sex partners and yourself. Sex is a wonderful part of being human. Do it responsibly!
David Shelton
Freelance graphic artist and sign designer. 66-year-old retiree who lives in Arizona with his husband, Tom.
I have also been a cartoonist, comedian, and have created articles in publications throughout the United States. My focus in retirement is primarily health, fitness, and laughter content.
I create my content based on my own life experiences.
