Revenge comes in many forms, whether it’s spreading rumors or vandalizing someone’s property. But in today’s digital world, things can get ugly quickly, especially involving a jilted lover or ex-partner. If your partner is revealing sexually explicit images or videos of you online without your consent, you may be a victim of revenge porn. It is a calculated form of domestic abuse, and there’s no better time to delve into the topic than October, which is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. In this post, we’ll go over what you should do if you’re a victim of revenge porn.
Report the Offending Photos
If images or videos were posted to social media, you’ll need to contact the social media platform directly (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, Reddit, Tumblr, Google, Yahoo, Bing, etc.) to get it removed. You can find a detailed guide here from Hutcherson Law.
While you’re at it, check in on your social media privacy settings. Change passwords and change your profiles to private mode.
Keep a Record
It’s essential to document everything. Take screenshots and grabs to show how your privacy was violated. Take note of the day and time as well.
File a Police Report
Revenge porn can be considered stalking or harassment. Reporting the incident to the police creates a paper trail that can be useful if you press charges.
Research State Laws
Forty-six states, including the District of Columbia, have laws again revenge porn. Check with the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative to find out if your state is one of them.
Consider Getting a Lawyer
If there is a law against revenge porn in your state, a lawyer may be able to help prosecute your offender. Charges range from misdemeanor to felony, depending on location.
Call This Hotline Number
If you need advice or more information, you can call the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative Hotline at 844-878-CCRI (2274).
Christina Montoya Fiedler
Christina Montoya Fiedler is a news writer based in Los Angeles, CA. She’s a mom, wife, blogger, former publicist, lima bean hater, and coffee drinker extraordinaire — but not necessarily in that order. You can follow her on Twitter @cmf2009.
