If you’re like me, you’re ready to let your hair down this summer. And I’m not talking about enjoying some rides at the water park or attending outdoor concerts. Don’t get me wrong. All those things are great. But I’m talking about I’m too sexy for my shirt … I’m too sexy for my car … maybe even I’m too sexy for this article let your hair down summer fun!
What can you dare to do that is sexily different this summer? Or, what can you do again because it was so sexily pleasing the last time?
Here are some sexy things you can try this summer.
First Things First – Owning Your Sexiness
You can’t truly embrace and enjoy a sexy summer unless you truly embrace all of who you are. So first, let’s embrace self-love.
Sexiness is not about how you look or even what you wear. It’s about how you wear you. Yes, that’s right. It’s about how you see yourself.
Being sexy is a state of mind. Tall, short, size 4, size 20. Twenty-two years old or 60 years young. Being sexy is about how you feel about yourself. When you know you are worthy of love and respect and exude confidence because you know you are beautiful inside and out, you are sexy.
Now, with that being said, let’s jump into some sexy things for this summer.
Outdoor Sexcapades
The nice weather is calling you and your fantasies outdoors. We’re not suggesting you catch an indecent exposure charge, just that you do some things that could possibly lead to one if you’re not careful about who may be watching.
Lay out a blanket in the backyard with you and your partner’s favorite drinks and snacks. Play music of your choice. Then have your way with each other.
Do not feel the need to keep the fun in one spot. Pleasure each other on lawn furniture and the picnic table if your backs can handle the hard surface.
Trees are quite sturdy when it comes to support. Pin each other up against a tree and see how it changes the dynamics. If you have a swimming pool, that’s even better. Jump in butt naked for a sexual experience that warrants a standing ovation.
Being single is no excuse not to come outdoors. Grab or order a sex toy and pleasure yourself. Feel how the vibration is affected when you’re on the hard patio surface compared to up against the air conditioning unit.
And, of course, sex toys are not just for the single. Use sex toys with your partner or watch your partner use their toy.
If you live in an apartment and don’t have a backyard, move your under-the-sheets romping to your terrace. You may not be able to get butt naked If you don’t have privacy on your balcony, but the necessary parts can find one another under a sundress or blanket.
Think of your home as the pilot program. If it goes well outside your home, move your outdoor sexcapades to other venues. Spice things up by pleasuring your partner or yourself at the beach or an isolated area of a park.
Toys
Toys are not just a great way to stimulate yourself, they’re a way to learn what you like.
A vibrator with an oral stimulator feature is just what a girl needs. The Sweetie G Spot Vibrator gives you seven different tongue movements that include licking up, down, and sliding.
Oral pleasure goes both ways. Men can enjoy the sucking feeling of toys like Fleshy Pro or other sexual simulations through fleshlights.
Wearables
If your toys are smaller and more discreet, it may be even easier to get away with outdoor sexcapades. Try a panty vibrator the next time you go out. These are panties designed to fit a vibrator, which is usually controlled by remote control or a phone app.
Get a vibrator that may surprise you — one that vibrates to music. This toy forces me to take back my earlier comment about not attending an outdoor concert. Go with your vibrator in tact … … and really enjoy the music.
Surrender
You can control so many things through your cell phone. Why not control your sexual experience, too?
Let your partner have control. Give them the remote or get sex toys that are controlled through a phone app. There are toys made specifically for long-distance relationships.
Boudoir Photos
Have sexy professional photographs taken. Boudoir photography captures you in intimate and sensuous settings. You can wear lingerie, your partner’s t-shirt with nothing underneath, or be completely nude. Pose in compromising positions that show off your best assets.
Take it one step further and have a party to reveal the portraits. You can display only the ones where you are partially clothed. If that’s a little too risqué, hang them in your house or give a photo or two to your partner.
Let’s make this summer something not to write home about!
LaShonda Tucker
LaShonda Tucker is a freelance writer, poet, and spoken word artist in Atlanta. When she isn't writing, she enjoys playing her violin. She earned her master's degrees from the University of Georgia and Kennesaw State University.
